Get a first look at the new Better Than Before Divorce website, upcoming support tools, and group coaching options. Find calm and clarity for your next chapter.

As we turn the corner into the holiday season, I’ve been thinking a lot about the extra emotional weight so many of us carry this time of year. The expectations, the memories, the pressure to keep it together while navigating change you may never have planned for can be exhausting. If this season feels tender or overwhelming, you are far from alone.
I’ve been there, too, and I haven’t forgotten how stressful it is. So just in time for the holidays, I’m excited to share that the new, fully refreshed Better Than Before Divorce website is now live. It was redesigned from the ground up to give you exactly what you need from the moment you land on the page. My hope is that it offers calm, empowering options for your next chapter.
And there is something else coming too. Something many of you have been asking for. But more on that in a minute.
Let’s start with what’s here right now for you.
I’ve heard many of you say you wanted a clearer way to find the resources that fit the exact stage you’re in. Some of you were looking for communication support or free tools, and others wanted details about private coaching. Everyone wanted more ease and less searching.
So, using your feedback, I focused on making it easy to find what you want quickly and move forward without second-guessing. I hope every page feels encouraging and purposeful.
The tone, the layout, and the colors were all chosen to remind you that calm is possible, even now. Divorce brings enough intensity on its own. Your first experience with me should feel like an exhale, not another stressor.
This refresh is more than a new look. It reflects what you told me works, what doesn’t, and what helps you feel more supported. I’m grateful you trusted me with that feedback.
In this program, you’ll learn how to respond with intention even when you’re triggered, set boundaries that stick, and communicate with confidence so you can protect your kids and yourself with less overwhelm and more clarity.
This program is for anyone who wants emotional steadiness, communication support, tools for rebuilding, and a sense of shared experience, but may not be able to invest in one-on-one coaching or may simply prefer the energy of a collective space. Group coaching offers a more cost-effective option without sacrificing depth, guidance, or support.
It includes weekly live sessions, guided tools, emotional support, communication coaching, and a safe space to process the parts you don’t want to share anywhere else.
If you’re:
• overwhelmed by the emotional roller coaster and need things to feel steadier
• tired of reacting and want to respond with clarity
• exhausted from carrying the weight of protecting your kids while managing your own stress
• looking for a plan that makes sense, not scattered advice from the internet
• seeking support that feels calm, professional, and grounded, not judgmental
Then this program was built for you.
If you know you want to be part of this or simply want to hear details as they roll out, you can join the waitlist right now with no obligation. You can also learn more about what’s included, who’s a fit, pricing options, and more.
The holiday season can be challenging even when we’re at our best. It is often the time when people most need clarity, support, and a sense of personal steadiness.
My hope is that these new resources remind you that you don’t have to figure everything out alone. You deserve support that meets you where you are. You deserve a process that honors your situation and encourages growth. You deserve to exhale and celebrate small wins, even in the middle of difficult change.
That is what I hope all my support will offer you.
If this season feels overwhelming, consider giving yourself the gift of one small step toward support. Explore the new site. Join my free community. Read a blog post. Join the waitlist for the new group program. Book a session. Or simply pause long enough to notice what you need today.
I’m here to help you move through this chapter with steadiness and confidence. You are capable of more than you know, and you don’t have to navigate any of it on your own. Here’s to feeling more supported, more grounded, and hopeful as we move into the holidays. 💝💪🏼
“You are BRAVER than you believe, STRONGER than you seem, SMARTER than you think, and LOVED more than you know.”
-Winnie the Pooh

"I’m worried that the emotional roller coaster I’m on will affect the holidays for my kids. What can I do?"
It makes sense to worry about this. Holidays can amplify everything you’re already carrying, and wanting to protect your kids is a sign of how much you care. The goal isn’t to be perfectly steady. The goal is to be intentional. Start by giving yourself just a little more space to notice what you’re feeling before you respond to anything – from your kids, your ex or anyone else.
Even a single pause can help you choose a calm next step. Rather than assume your kids need you to be unshakable, focus on being present, honest, and grounded enough to guide them through whatever comes up in the moment. It can also help to keep things simpler this year. Traditions can be adjusted. Plans can be smaller. You get to decide what supports your family instead of pushing through what drains you.
And remember, taking care of yourself is one of the most protective things you can do for your kids. When you feel steadier, they feel steadier. Most important, give yourself credit. You’re navigating a lot and still showing up with intention. That matters more than anything.
Here I’ll share some of the books, websites, podcasts, and experts to help make your journey a little less shitty!

The new Better Than Before Divorce™ website is officially live, and I’d love for you to visit!
Explore and click around to see all of the supportive resources now available for you.
Let me know what you think! 😁